Mistress Scarlet

A couple of commenters, in relation to my recent post of the account of Sissy Maid Sonya, have mentioned Madame Rebecca who lived a FLR based around cuckolding and her sissy maid. She used to run a yahoo group. She died quite a while ago, but there is a partial archive of her writing on Fetlife… https://fetlife.com/groups/23675

Several people have commented how much they liked Madame Rebecca’s material, so I decided to have my bitch download her archive and I have begun to read it.

What I liked so far

Firstly, very good, is her attitude. An unwavering belief that she deserves and will get EXACTLY the life she wants for her sexual and other pleasure, and ease, at whatever cost to her husband. Included in that attitude is that she is fully relaxed while being uncompromising and pitiless. I adore such an attitude and always find it quite hot indeed.

This attitude particularly relevant to chore duties, humiliating sissification, sexual denial and cuckolding.

Secondly, she employs both corner time and storing away in a cupboard when not needing her maid, and what I particularly adored was she had identified a specific corner in every room as the storage space for her husband-maid. So no matter in which room they were both occupation, she simply utters the word, “Corner“, and her husband-sissy-maid knows where he must go to push his nose to the wall and stand silently without fidgeting, until further notice.

I know from my own experience that, especially in front of visitors, suffering corner time is very very, very humbling and humiliating for the occupier of the corner!

To throw in my own two-pennies worth, there are other options to corner time that are even worse for the uxo and so, even more pleasurable for the Domme. An even deeper humiliation is for the uxo to be dressed as a parody of a little girl and sit on the floor or a small chair, and have to quietly but audibly, play a game with dollies, emulating the persona of a little girl, lisping and all. I know from my own experience that, especially in front of visitors, this tribulation is very very, very humbling and very very, very humiliating, for the ‘little girl’. Much worse than mere corner time. (Volume 23 of my journals goes into great detail.)

And an option of a different type is for the Domme to sit in a swing seat with her boot on the throat of the uxo who lays on his back in front of her seat. Retching and gagging and whimpering can be heard, (but not too loud), from somewhere down below, as the Domme rocks away; reading, or attending to social media or phone calls with girlfriends.

What I hated so much

Her ludicrous belief and assertion that ALL men could be dominated in the way she dominated her husband. I abhor all falsehoods relating to FLRs. I abhor all generalisations relating to FLR that do not stand up in any way to scrutiny.

One generalisation that DOES stand up to scrutiny is that, when it comes to FLRs, and to a male submitting to a woman, there are two very distinct types of male. Uxos and non-uxos. Only uxos can be compelled to become sissy maids, (as simply as by the Domme saying “Do you want domination my way, or no domination at all”.) And an uxo would find deep contentment in being helplessly in the power of a dominant woman with a bit of a mean streak, who would enforce that.

Whereas, a non-uxo male could only be forced into becoming a sissy maid by extreme measures like, unlawful blackmail or domestic imprisonment and physical force. And the non-uxo male would get zero contentment in being helplessly in the power of a dominant woman with a bit of a mean streak.

One reason I abhor this misinformation so much is how it makes it even more difficult to increase the number of women who will run an FLR, if the topic is filled with confusing misinformation. Much like a husband telling his wife he is a submissive person, when of course he means he is an uxo and wishes to submit to her, but is not actually submissive at all other than to her, and perhaps some other dominant women.

It is almost as annoying as the huge number of uxos on FLR related social media who make statements along the lines of, how the world should be run by women and all the males submit to that. An uxo should realise that not all men feel like he does at all! An uxo should also realise that, there are great men and great women who should be running things in this world, and also, there are appallingly stupid men, AND APPALLINGLY STUPID WOMEN, who should not be running anything at all, not even an FLR.